Monday, August 31, 2009

Small talk...

Elmer and I aren't big talkers. When Kai was first born, Elmer was in Hawaii and I was still in Washington ; it was like pulling teeth to get him to talk to me for more than 15 minutes. It isn't a bad thing, we just don't find the need to fill every minute together with words. Sometimes it is nice to just be tOgThEr, but who wants to sit silently on the phone for hours? Not me and certainly not Elmer! Long distance relationships are hard like that and if I had to do it again I don't think I could. I nEed ThIs mAn! That is why I love our sMalL tAlk, when we are jUst BeInG tOgTheR, doing nothing at all:

Me: "I love you baby!"

Elmer: "I love you more!"

Me: "No, I love you more!!!"

Elmer: "NO, I LOVE YOU MORE!!!"

Me: "Okay, you can love me more but I loved you first..."

... And you know what?!?! Every day when I wake up I love him mOrE!!!!


Christian said...

Try using skype next time. I've been away from my wife and kids for almost a month and it sure has made it easier to see the kids and have them see me back.

Jas and Rach said...

that's cute. Jason nad I aren't big talkers either. adn we like that.

Mini Roberts Clan said...

That is beautiful. I'm so glad you two are so happy. I love you both so very much!! MUAH!

Ashleigh said...

Some time silence is good, Cory and I knew we were meant to be when we realized that during the quiet moments it felt good. It was a comfortable silence. I remember being with people and the silence between us was akward. I love your posts. They are so good and I miss you when you dont blog. thanks for being a great friend. I love you!

Sariah said...

Thank you for loving him...he is a good guy. I am so glad he found are wonderful!!